Here i am back after recovering my password.If you were wondring what happen,as in u had never seen my new articles poppin up,its because i simply forgot my password!!!!
Ok enough of that.I would just want to share with u the importance of failing.
#1stly,it aint a curse that u are born mentally deficient of any sort.So stop thinking like that.
#2ndly,i want u all to know that when u fail Big time (as in final year examinations,not class tests).Well one word of advice.RELAX!!
#3rdly why people are scared of failing is because they never thought it will come to them,or ever will.(GET THEE BEHIND,FAILURE!!!)
well whats my main point?I have been talking to people on this subject as i meet up to study with them,or having a conversation with them.Its kinda like a small survey but without ur statistical report.(ok i know i have been at this "facing failure "thing for months...)
first of all i did a phone convo ,asking my fren on her day's paper.she said she may not make it for math.reply? "huh..i dun wanna go for one more year just to retake"
I messaged a close fren on her math paper. She went :"don't talk about it"
the other time i told her that my private school,CHEC, was quite a fun place to be,
and i asked would she want to be there? reply:"CHOY!!(singlish:touch wood.In other words,GET THEE BEHIND,FAR BEHIND,FAILURE!!!)
Got a fren who was the top student to study. he told me his frens all said that he was a hardworking chap.Always scoring good results.he went in his head :"yeah,for what??" he couldnt find a purpose for studying.So he told me.
so much so these are evidences for the fear of failure.After recovering from a six months depression,i adjusted my expectations and start out with the worse in mind.Now my new mentality after days of thought- shaping is :COME,FAILURE!!!COME WHAT MAY!!" seems fearless.(haha)
I am not teaching anyone to be a pessimist,i am just saying u should have the worst expectations so u can know how to adjust ur expectation,and act accordingly to avoid the situation,should it nearly come to pass.yeah so u guys take care.train from failures,and take it as a chance as a failure to develop something others do not have,resilience(passionate determination and calmness when faced with an adversity)!!until next time!!!!